Obsequious

/əbˈsiːkwiəs/advancedadjective

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Meaning

Obedient or attentive to an excessive or servile degree; fawning and flattering.

Memory trick

Think "OB-SEQUI-OUS" = "OB (toward) SEQUI (follow) + OUS", following excessively, being overly compliant. Obsequious = excessively servile.

Examples

1

The obsequious waiter anticipated every customer's need.

2

His obsequious behavior toward the boss was uncomfortable to watch.

3

She found his obsequious compliments insincere.

Synonyms

servilefawningsycophanticsubmissivedeferentialflatteringingratiating

Antonyms

assertiveindependentdefiantprouddignified

Etymology

From Latin obsequiosus "compliant, obedient," from obsequi "to comply with," from ob- "toward" + sequi "to follow."

Usage Notes

Generally used negatively to describe excessive flattery or servility. Common in social and professional critiques.

Real-life contexts

1

Critique behavior: "His obsequious manner was off-putting."

2

Describe excessive politeness: "The obsequious staff was overwhelming."

3

Use in analysis: "The obsequious tone undermined credibility."

Common Mistakes

Obsequious implies excessive or insincere deference, not just politeness.

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